Wednesday, June 17, 2009

What is it about coming home that feels so good?

I'm happy to say we made it safely to Alabama yesterday. The flights went well even though Lauren ripped a handful of hair from Anna's head during the first flight and an overzealous flight attendant took away Jacob's car seat and checked it on the second. The flight attendant apparently did not like the way the car seat needed to be strapped in and decided it was safer for me to lap him. We did, however, end up with a free round trip ticket for Jacob to use within the next year but it was still a bit of a pain.


My mom met us at the airport and the kids were so happy to see their Nana. We always fly into Birmingham to save a little money but end up with a 3-hour drive at the end of the travel day. Somehow, someway, we manage to turn that 3-hour drive into a 5-hour one and don't ever arrive at my mother's until around 8:00 at night. Near Tuscaloosa we stopped to eat at Cracker Barrel. Anna has been obsessed with the idea of Cracker Barrel recently and is always asking to eat there. I happily thought perhaps it was the turnip greens or fried okra that left her wanting more but alas, I was wrong. Cracker Barrel apparently has the best candy-filled princess wands in town. Both girls have their Nana wrapped around their little fingers and so they each left with a treat. As for me, I picked up a little container of buckeyes...the devil's snack. I could not stop eating those little chocolate covered peanut butter balls of iniquity even as they melted all over my hands in the 100 degree, hades-like humid weather.


This morning, I woke up to the sound of my mother's footsteps in the kitchen below. I still remember waking up to her purposeful footsteps when I was a child as she moved from chore to chore. They say that home is where the heart is. My home is with Doug and the children but it's here too. I could hear the house waking up, the tin roof popping as the sun came up and the house making little noises as the girls began walking up and down the stairs. It's all so familiar, so welcoming. There's also just something about the bed in "my room" at my mother's. I always sleep so well there. The first thing I see when I open my eyes in the mornings is Jacob's crib next to the bed. This crib has seen a lot of little ones come and go. It was mine as a child and then my brother's. Both of my girls have had their turn in it and now it belongs to our last little bundle. I love that it's been a part of our lives for so many years. I can't wait for it to hold my brother's children when they're born.








Another thing I love is the land, the land, the land. It's so beautiful there and it's almost as if you could walk forever. This is the view from my mom's front porch. My mom and step-dad live in a little country town called Millry. It's been there just over a hundred years but still only has one stoplight in the heart of the town. The best pizza around comes from the local gas station called "Sookies". You can also get dinner plates there... full of fried fish, fried chicken, or french fries in addition to a heap of bacon-fat filled veggies. There's a "laundrymat" across the street and a place to wash your car. There must be at least 5 floral shops or so it seems and just about as many bait shops, even though some are out of business. I can't think of another eatin' place in town but there is a grocery store over near the church. My stepfather grew up here. He's a good man so they must be doing something right. Everyone knows everyone else, their business included. People are polite even though it's HOT. Everyone keeps the air turned down so you're either freezing while inside or melting while outside. You may have noticed that the picture of the view from my mom's front porch is a bit foggy. That's because my "durned" (as we say in the south) camera kept fogging up every time I took it outside. This is one of the few places I can go where another person genetically linked to me shares my camera mania. Growing up my mother always had a camera in her hand. We hated it at the time but love having the pictures now.


Speaking of my manic twin, my mom runs a little screenprinting business 14 miles down the road from Millry in another small town called Chatom. She has a few more food options there....one next door and another across the street. The first is called "Luther's" and they make some mean chicken tenders (fried, of course) and the other is "Buster's Seafood" and I'm sure they make a mean fried something there as well.

As for my mother; I'm extremely proud of her. One of the many reasons is that she is a hard worker. She works from dusk until dawn in her little shop turning out hundreds of t-shirts and monogrammed items with no help. People want the world and they want it yesterday. I don't know how she manages to do it all but somehow she does. Another reason is that my mother can make anything....anything I tell ya. She can sew like there's no tomorrow, lay ceramic tile, and build your kitchen cabinets if need be. She's pretty amazing that way.


On this particular morning my mother took the girls into work with her while I worked with Jacob. After his morning nap, we drove to my mother's store where the girls were busy "learning to screenprint".


My mother gave the girls dry erase boards and Anna got to work writing notes. Afterwards she spent a little time coloring.


Lauren, on the other hand, felt her time at the store would be best spent harassing Anna and so, that's just what she did.
Both girls have been begging to go fishing this afternoon at the pond but I think my mom has about 8 billion shirts to finish tonight. We'll wait and see. Fish stories tomorrow, perhaps??

Friday, June 12, 2009

Snapshots

Old


New
Play

Rest

Chaos
Order

The birds

And the bees

Dismay: The unending line of ants in the kitchen and backyard

The unfortunate choice of paint color in the kitchen and bathroom by the previous owners

What to do with this new home feature

Saying goodbye to the growing sunflowers at our old house
Happiness: Sweet smiles

The roses in our yard
Trees the deer sleep under at night Fresh peaches Extra happiness: The cool weather we've been having and the rain currently falling (I mean it is June in CA.....crazy!)

Saturday, June 6, 2009

Reward

LOST!
One Brain
Last seen fully intact 6 years ago prior to the birth of my first child
Have lost bits and pieces steadily since that time
Two other large chunks lost with each successive labor and delivery
Reward for the return of said brain!


What in the world is wrong with me? I am so much more addled this time around. I seriously have a hard time understanding what Doug is saying to me. Just the other day he had to tell me 4 times where he wanted the phone jacks installed and he finally ended up writing it down for me. I've driven to the new house without keys to get in, not once but TWICE. I took Jacob to the doctor, threw his wet diaper away and had no other diapers in the diaper bag. I can't find anything. I also cannot get out the door without having to go back in at least three times for something I've forgotten. Our new neighbor had to tell me her name three times. And to top things off, I walked around Anna's graduation ceremony the entire time with my zipper down. So, if anyone should happen to come across any gray matter that could be mine, please ship it my way. I'll bake you a pie as a thank you (if I can remember the ingredients)!

Friday, June 5, 2009

Con"graduation" to Anna!

Our baby is done with kindergarten. She had such a great year and I was really impressed with the amount she learned. She also made some wonderful friends. I'm so sad that she has to change schools. If the kids at school are as friendly as our new neighbors have been, then she'll be just fine. Speaking of neighbors, in our current (now old) neighborhood, we met one neighbor. We said "Hi" in passing and that was the extent of the friendship. At our new house, we've already met the families on either side of us. Two other families from down the street came over with their kids and brought us watermelon. Then two other neighbors stopped by as well just to chat. Anna and Lauren played for hours with five new friends. I cannot believe the difference in the neighborhoods. I'm super excited!

Back to the other big news though, here are some shots of Anna's last day. The class sang several songs they had learned through the year. In the next two shots, they were singing about a great white shark and a slippery fish.


Anna and Mrs. Warren Anna and Nick (one of the reasons we didn't have an Alice in Wonderland b-day party...Anna was worried because Nick was "freaking out" about going to an Alice party). Apparently, they had "dates" on the playgrounds that the other kids teased them about. Anna is sure Nick loves her because he smiled at her. She is also sure they're going to be married someday. :)
Anna and Brynn
Anna, Kaiya, and Phoenix
Anna and Evan (her dirt bike man). She told me one day that Evan was a "dirt bike man". She thought he was silly and handsome. She was sure Evan was the one...until Nick came along.

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Almost time and The Answer

Well, Friday is Anna's last day of kindergarten. Starting next week, I'll be here with all three squirts all day long every day...I need summer projects. I've already started making a list of ideas and activities. I need some more inspiration. What do you guys have planned? For us, this month will be filled with just getting moved and settled in the new house. In about two weeks, the kiddles and I will be headed to Alabama to visit the family. That leaves July and most of August. I really want this to be a fun summer for our family. I'm hoping the little ones will like what I have planned.
In a previous post, I asked what you do in an empty house for 12 hours. I found out you spend a lot of time on the floor. You watch 6 movies, hunt snails, run from wasps, pick flowers, meet the neighbors, run down the postman, play tag, watch plays put on by your children, and hope you don't forget toilet paper. As it turned out, I didn't have to spend the full 12 hours after all. I called AT&T and they told us to expect the technician around 10:15. When 1:30 rolled around, I called again only for them to tell me there had been a problem and they needed to "work" on getting someone out there. After almost 6 hours, I'd had enough and we rescheduled for 10:00 Monday. On Monday, AT&T arrived on time and the tech was done within 15 minutes. I was thrilled. DTV was supposed to arrive between 12 and 4. He showed up at 12:10 and I was delighted that I would not have to spend another day sitting when I had things to do around here. Well, I was overly optimistic about that one. Doug got home from work at 5:30 and came to the new house. The kids and I left and came home while Doug sat there with the DTV technician for another 2 hours!!! Doug finally called it when the guy drilled a hole 2 feet off his target and through a stud. I met the tech again the next morning and he finally finished up at 11:00. Let me just say, I'm excited about our new house but moving really stinks!!!

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Life with Baby

Do you ever read something that speaks to you? And even after you've read it, you can't stop thinking about it? I recently came across a post on "c jane enjoy it" called "Mammorial Day". She tells the story of her last day nursing her son. I can completely relate to the way she felt. When I stopped nursing Anna and Lauren, I just felt at a loss. I know it will eventually come with Jacob as well. I can't even begin to think about how much I'll miss that special time with him...all the small sounds, the feel of his hand wrapped around my finger, the weight of his little chubby body as I hold him close. Sigh...I just can't seem to find the right words but Jane does. She really says it all. If you have a moment, go read her post.
She had this poem at the beginning of her story. I can't stop thinking about it either.

Blood and Milk
by Sharlee Mullins Glenn

I dreamed of Oxford . . .
(spires, a thousand spires, endless lectures, musty halls
a solitary self in a Bodleian expanse
A good life my dear Wormwood. An orderly life.)

then awakened to laundry
and things to be wiped
countertops, noses, bottoms

How did this happen? And when, exactly?

Time flows, it flows, it flows
and there are choices to be made:

left or right?
paper or plastic?
blood or milk?

There's freedom in the bleeding;
bondage in the milk—do not be deceived.

Ah, but it's an empty freedom; a holy bondage,
A sweet and holy bondage.

Five times I chose the chains, those tender chains,
(though once will bind you just as well!)
and checked the crimson flow.
Suckled while dreaming of Trinity Term
but awakened, always awakened, to the laundry
and to that small and cherished captor at my breast.
-From Segullah